But in a nutshell, your cord cutting ceremony will help you set clear intentions and adjust your vibration. Your thoughts are powerful!
So when you decide to move toward freedom, independence, and power, your vibration will naturally rise. As a result, you are no longer a vibrational match to the other person.
This means the two of you are no longer energetically in sync. It’s like you’ve just scrambled your signal and they can no longer pick up on your energy.
Keep in mind, the other person will not be consciously aware that something’s changed. Instead, they’ll likely experience the items listed below.
If you want to learn more about how your vibration determines the people who show up in your life, read this next: Energy Vibrations Between People: Who Are You Manifesting?
Your timing won’t match up. Doesn’t it feel like whenever you’re trying to avoid someone, they keep popping up wherever you are? This is because of law of attraction!
Whenever you resist something (or someone) strongly, it makes you a vibrational match to that thing because you’re giving it so much attention.
After your cord cutting ritual, this person won’t be on your mind, which means you’re less likely to keep drawing them into your life.
They’ll be guided toward different people. It takes time to break toxic patterns, but eventually the other person is not going to feel as comfortable engaging in drama with you, because your energy has shifted.
You’ll be on their mind less often. This may take a bit of time, but it’s not something you need to worry about. Your work is to trust the process.
Eventually they will naturally begin to drift away (or, they’ll at least stop bringing the drama, if this is someone you want to keep in your life).
Remember, there’s no need to worry about the other person when you’re cutting cords. If cutting ties is in your best interest, then in spiritual truth, it’s in their best interest as well.
What Happens After Cord Cutting
Okay! So you’ve completed your cord cutting ritual and you’re ready to move forward. Now what? This is the time to focus on your own healing and self-care, especially in these areas:
Relationships
When you get tangled up in a toxic relationship it can take a real toll on your sacral chakra. This energy center holds all your experiences that happen in your one-on-one relationships.
So if your partner was overpowering you, or if you need to heal from sexual trauma, now is the time for sacral chakra healing.
There are lots of easy ways to bring yourself relief in this area. Here is some related reading to continue your healing process:
Confidence
So if the situation that lead you to cord cutting has made you feel powerless, unworthy, or unsure of your abilities, then your solar plexus chakra is crying out for healing.
You deserve all the best in life! Now is the perfect time to keep this empowerment streak going. These posts will help you to feel strong, confident, and capable:
Heart Healing
If this situation has hurt your heart, then now more than ever, you deserve some heart chakra healing. This is an important step, so be sure to take all the time you need. Be sure to work your heart healing and self-love practices into your daily routine. These articles will help:
I hope these tools help you to feel free! What experiences have you had with cord cutting? Leave a reply and share!
Andrea has been practicing Astrology, Numerology, and Tarot for many years. She is a certified Aromatherapist and Reiki Master in Central NY, and also holds a Masters Degree from Syracuse University. Andrea loves helping her readers bring more spiritual self-care into their lives.